Submitting the
stories as a serial on CafeLit kept me focused on regularly writing each
section. I like the way each ‘chapter’ can be read individually or together and
you can dip in and out. It is particularly helpful when writing about difficult
subjects both for the writer and the reader. For many years now I have been
enjoying CafeLit. As part of this I created videos sharing the links on my
social media and this is very useful in marketing and visualising the themes
running through the book.
Publishing under
the ‘feisty women’ imprint was a brilliant idea. Mum was a very determined,
feisty woman but also sensitive and loving, living through her difficulties.
This set me up for life and enabled me to see how to adapt to challenges.
Integrity with kindness is essential.
Writing in a short
style enabled me to share and process challenges succinctly. Elaborating on
themes would have made a sense of overwhelming and the journey is paramount to
the book. Learning, accepting and finding the value of the present moment is
where I wanted to lead the reader through aspects of love. It is aimed
especially at people with experience of young caring and disability so that is
the focus. When I was experiencing difficult times reading positive turnarounds
really helped and I wanted to emulate this; there is a way through and forward
and caring is a huge, impactful reassurance in forming
empathy.
Including my
mother’s work was both a visual and written way to break the story and be a
tribute to Mum. The illustrations are all her work before she lost her sight and
they were part of a college course in the 1970s. I like the way they show
different styles and the positions in the book could spark thought. ‘What does a
ball of string represent in life?’ could be something we ask. The detail is all
freehand and I am amazed at her talent and it means a lot to me to include them.
Mum’s writing at the end of the book somehow summarises everything smoothly, as
I selected the pieces from her written calligraphy.
The book is both a
memoir and biography. Perspective change is part of the writing style chosen
which I toyed with but comfortably settled on. On previous attempts to write
about life I found it too challenging hence this style was
helpful.
I am talking about
the book at the upcoming Quaker Arts Network AGM on 1st June 2024 in
Birmingham in a short presentation. Then I’ll see where marketing takes me.
Social media is where I share the book links and also share support for young
carers and people with disabilities and this is where I would like to continue
to increase awareness. Networks in health where I’m a Peer Leader are
encouraging me to share the book as personal experience is so vital in working
to improve services. I have a list of ideas for future
events.
I’m working on a
horror story as a sequel to my book ‘The Doll’s House of Horror’ and enjoying
writing this.
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